ARTICLE #2 She says,“I don’t get a long with girls. I have more guy friends than girl friends.â€Â
Any girl who thinks that this is “Ok†is confused. But then again aren’t they all? I always said to myself, “The next time a girl tells me that she has more guy friends than girl friends and we happen to be out and driving somewhere…I’m going to pull over and tell her to leave.†Un-needed. I’ll probably teach her the lesson of a lifetime.
Men and women, meet, and get together to build a relationship. But sometimes, there are distractions within the relationship once two people become settled in… Guy friends. Yes female friends can be a distraction too. I will cover that in article #3. Many women will agree with me when I say that the only reason guys approach girls is to get laid. That’s the way it works, it’s the truth. And the ones that approach guys, end up with more “guy friends,” supporting my thesis.
If you happen to be one of those types of girls who enjoys the company of men over women, you probably are:
Divorced/Single
Your ex-husband/ex-boyfriend probably didn’t like the fact that you had guy friends which lead to fights, which added to all of the other problems you had in the relationship, leading into a breakup or a divorce. Remember girls, there are two sides to every story. He has his and she has hers… She may say he’s crazy for flipping out, but when his story is told, things begin to make more sense. Women like to twist things around and they are good at it.
Married and unhappy
Just because you’ve been married for 20+ years, that doesn’t mean that your wife hasn’t had the thought of “what if†come through her mind. The same thing goes for married men.
Single and confused
Being the only girl in the group gives you a bad rep. How much man do you need? Did your dad not hold you enough?
Or she has a boyfriend that she’s not too sure about
She doesn’t have what it takes to broom him because there’s something that she’s still getting out of him. If she won’t get it from him, she’ll use her circle of guy friends for favors. These are the types of girls that will continue to look for something more, to fill a gap that the present boyfriend can’t… Relationship or not, women always like to compare one guy to another. If she just got out of a relationship, she’ll compare her current boyfriend to her ex. She even thinks about the ex when she’s having sex with her “new†boyfriend. If she’s been in a relationship and hanging out with other guys, she’ll probably compare those guy friends to the boyfriend. That way when the boyfriend messes something up or doesn’t come through with a favor (as if its his f*cking job), girlfriend will simply turn to guy friend and compare the fact that he did something and the boyfriend didn’t. Girls say that they don’t remember things… They are lying. Is this why we have so many relationship problems? This generation of women, is in a state of confusion.
A college professor once told me…
“Women are the most unpredictable specie on earth.â€Â
Also See: Things women say to men, explained. Article #1
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No, Scarlett, a guy would…a real man wouldn’t because he’d be secure in his masculinity and his girl’s feelings for him that he wouldn’t feel threatened by the idea.
I get along with guys better, but I don’t necessarily have more male friends. I grew up in a military family and I can’t stand drama…which, ironically, I create because I speak the truth instead of keeping my mouth shut to keep the peace. I like “girly” things like baking and scrapbooking, but I also enjoy “manly” things like football and wrestling (high school style, not that fake crap on tv).
I must agree that you have a lot of women stereo-typed well, but lumping us all in together is not 100% accurate.
You are, with all due respect, an idiot.
I have a plethora of female friends, and some very close ones, but I would say numbers-wise the majority of my close friends are male, so much so that my guy friends will invite me as the only female allowed to otherwise guy-only events such as bachelor parties.
Am I attractive? Yes, I’d say so, and I’m sure they’ve looked at my boobs in a tight shirt and thought, “Hey, nice boobs.” But I have NO sexual relationship whatsoever with any of these guys. We have been friends for upwards of 15-20 years, and while I am single right now, I have had very long term relationships in the time I’ve known them and it has nothing to do with the fact that I always had many male friends.
The fact that you would leave a girl on the side of the road shows what kind of an immature prick you are.
You are nothing if not the one with problems. You are obviously lacking in self=confidence if you cannot handle a girl who has many male friends. The fact that someone may share with you that she has male friends could, (not hold your breath) mean nothing more than SHE IS MAKING CONVERSATION. Nothing more, nothing less.
In fact, I have had many men LOVE that I have many guy friends because it tells them that I am not a bitchy, gossipy, catty girly-girl. I like sports, strip clubs don’t bother me, dirty guy-talk doesn’t bother me, I can appreciate attractive other women without feeling self-conscious or threatened, and men feel comfortable talking to me. My guy friends like me because I am easy-going and they can act like themselves around me, fully, while still getting a female perspective on things if they want it. Even if some of them are attracted to me, it has no basis in our friendship.
Do I think some of them are cute? Sure, I can tell you when I think another human being is attractive, male or female, but that doesn’t mean I can’t be friends with them, and only friends. 99% of my guy friends are actually in very long-term, monogamous relationsips, and have been for many years. Most are married, or soon-to-be married, and they are most certainly not friends with me because I have nice tits.
You are an idiot, and if you haven’t got many female friends, I can certainly see why. I would be surprised if you have many friends of substance, period, and I feel sorry for any loser who takes anything you write here seriously.
Grow the fuck up. Have a lovely day.
Is this article a joke? Really?
Wow. The truth is, most people fall into the role society has set for them. And some girls just don’t like that role. It’s never been about sex. It’s never been about confusion either. I know guys that have said the same thing. They are friends with more girls. I’ve seen that. They don’t like their roles either. While you might be all about sex, and thats all you see in a girl when you meet her, thats not every guy. Thats a sad, pathetic stereotype thats really unfair to both sexes. My best friend in elementary school was a guy. My best friend in highschool was a guy. Why were we friends? Because we had the same sense of humor. I never had to speak, he knew exactly what I thought, and he said it better. And when we did argue, he was smart. He was together. He had his facts down. Politics, religion, literature, music. We were the same person. There was no basis of sex when we became friends. He was the most important person in my life. And I really don’t see why his penis matters in that role.
Fuck you for trying to make that relationship and the ones I’ve had since just a trivial anecdote for your view on what you think women are.
There are no “women.” There are no “men.” Theres just people. Theres no clan meetings where we get together and decide who we are. You need to stop looking at people in group. Not everyone is the same. Not all women are the same. Not all men are the same.
i just think a girl dumped ur sorry ass and now u r bitter …..guys are not angels and nither are girls ….. i feel sorry for u man …. if she hurted u get over it already …dont go around calling us confused when clearly its u who needs a prospactive on things …..and to end this …..i still feel really soory for you
Good read. I completely agree this generation of women are totally confused. Lost in their cellphones its hard enough to even find one that is approachable because she’s on her phone.
This generation of women also don’t have any respect for men.
Dick Masterson might be right …. :\
I don’t agree with you much. BUT I’ve told you before, I feel the same way as you do when it comes to this topic.
And as much as those three girls talked about how much they hate drama…their comments themselves are so dramatic. ((Mainly lele and “…”))
They’re probably the same girls that get mad at you for saying girls are “liars, whores and cheaters”..but now when its convienent for them they jump on the “women hating” band wagon that you’re on.
Ladies, pick a side. =)
Man , u thing u know everything ??!!!
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So u have some bad experiense with girl who had more friends that are boys
This tekst is a big crap. Fell free to say something to my mail
That’s exactly the reason I would choose a guy as a friend over a girl.
A guy doesn’t complain about other guys being friends with girls in his blog, and a guy would never pull over and tell me leave his car when I tell him I have lots of guy friends.
it means just that. I dont get a long with chicks because they tend to be petty and love drama. I dont. Plus I like video games and anime. most chicks that I know dont, so I hang out with the guys. My hubs loves it because I get along with his friends, because they were all my friends first
Plus all my guy friends I have knows since pre school. I dont care what gender you are, knowing someone that long makes you like brother and sister.
I’m not confused, i prefer the company of men over women because men can stay in and watch tv and play video games as with ALL other women i met want to go outside and flirt with other men, i think it’s ridiculous what you said, you basically said women can’t have guy friends without falling in love with them, that is not true, you fucking retard. I AM NOT ANY OF THOSE THINGS THAT YOU SAID, thanks to men like you brainwashing other men into thinking ALL women are the same and have the same confused little brain and that you men can control us if you all stick together and form a cult and ruin our self-esteem once and for all. You are one of those ridiculous men who know absolutely nothing about women but think you do so you can look macho or whatever the reason. I like hanging out with guys because i just get along better with them, every female friend i had stabbed me in the back for attention from men, men like you.
Not many girls can handle me!! and your an asshole